When you have lots of friends, it becomes difficult to manage relationships.
You will have no idea for days that a certain friend is upset with you till you figure out that every past conversation with him/her had been a monologue off late. You wonder where you went wrong because apparently your friend is reticent over the issue.
He/she assumes that "the reason" is the second most obvious thing in the world after the no.1 i-am-angry-with-you.
:) fyi, nothing's obvious on planet. Not even the idea that you're alive.
You may be Bruce Willis from the Sixth Sense.
And the reasons baffle you. You had simply missed to do that “one thing” expected from you. But you also fail to understand why people would “ absolutely hate” you for a simple mistake that you’re of course allowed to commit because you’re a human being and not God. You did a hundred things to see them smile and it took just one miss to be hated.
And what if you’re already too hurt to say a sorry?
Maybe you will just hang on and wait for things to get better on their own.
4 comments:
hmm... interesting.
i dont know who is angry with you... or something.. but he/she is surely losing a lot.....
bachhi.. that is one of the wonderfullest pics i have seen.. and your expressions are excellent in the blog..
now i wont say.. "why don't you write" because.. actually you do that... and do that good...
m happy for you..! :)
Few observations...
When you have lots of friends, you start "managing" your relationships. And it may not be fun being one of the things you "manage".
Also...
When you have lots of friends, you still have lots of them even if you lose one.
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